god damn i love women who have like any amount of assertiveness and confidence and dare i say even enjoy being that and not just do it out of some sort of obligation to the social meta, not even judging anyone who doesn't ik what it's like but i don't think i can do the shy type anymore for dating, it way more stressful and infinitely less fun
like whenever i see her animations or some art or read some writing that was done by a gay woman i wonder "could the average man have done this?"
this sounds like im ragging on men but i'm not, i am saying this without any value judgment. but with how different media about sex/romance targeted towards men vs women can be, i genuinely wonder if the average man would have the amount of womenunderstanding to create fan service thats this effective
@vivi is dating entirely sex for me? no no it isnt. But talking about how bad you need an assertive woman is definitely crypto horny posting for a dominant woman and not a complex comment of relationships - i refuse to believe it.
@eemmaa@girlboss.gaslight.love ???? did you actually see any of my dog whistling posts or joking about the topic or desperation posting??? i will come off way stronger if im doing that bit, this literally actually is me just going "it sucks that in the places where i usually hang out in everyone is always pretty timid and neurotic, id like to date a person who isnt"
@vivi no it doesnt men are weird when they're assertive and weird when they aren't. im talking about like men worth dating which arent normies and thats rare. but theyre usually mentally retarded and autistic when they're not normies so they're weird. stick to women imo
@salt@social.xenofem.me maybe not if the relationship wasnt open and i liked everyone in it but its hard enough for me to fall in love with one person already there is no shot itll happen twice ez pz and the second person just happens to be the gf of the first person
@salt@social.xenofem.me ig if we're friends w/ benefits or smth not that serious idc if she's seeing another person but like idk flying out to meet girls is so much time and money it feels bad doing that for only fwb