@Mactonex yeah I think this is close to how I feel. Fetishising *acts*, makes sense. Fetishising *people* for the way they exist? Nope.
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Girl on the Net (girlonthenet@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Dec-2024 22:46:25 JST Girl on the Net
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Mactonex (mactonex@toot.community)'s status on Sunday, 15-Dec-2024 22:46:26 JST Mactonex
@girlonthenet yeah, seems wrong to fetishise what people are because it’s inherently reductive. You can’t fetishise the myriad ways of existing as a bi person so you are inevitably lumping them into a stereotype.
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Girl on the Net (girlonthenet@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Dec-2024 22:46:27 JST Girl on the Net
I dusted off my Fetlife profile and started filling it out and... hmm.
Kinksters, are we sure it's acceptable to list 'bisexuality' as a 'fetish'?
And is there any way to autoblock anyone who has any of the LITERAL RACE PLAY ones ticked???
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Girl on the Net (girlonthenet@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Dec-2024 23:55:37 JST Girl on the Net
@goatsarah @Mactonex Fucking hell that must have been terrifying. I am so sorry that happened to you.
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Girl on the Net (girlonthenet@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 00:01:54 JST Girl on the Net
@goatsarah @Mactonex I remember that cinema. What a creepy fucker though, and yeah I get why it was super weird. What is wrong with people that they think this is an acceptable way to interact?! Argh.
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Wilfried Klaebe (wonka@chaos.social)'s status on Monday, 16-Dec-2024 02:04:32 JST Wilfried Klaebe
WTAF??!? 😠
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