@asa@kaia yeah you're right I should have said five years is the limit that most people last, it seems like when you find people living there longer the numbers drop way off
@kaia I thought everything she said sounded true from things other people have told me. the only critique I have of her video is that she kept saying "no one told me, no one talks about this" but every single thing she mentioned in the video I have heard people talk about extensively since the early 1990s when I went as a homestay.
@sun lot of popular Japantubers are also discussing this. she was in the honeymoon phase before where she did not want to hear or understand the criticism.
@sun@kaia parts of that might also be that most gaizin who go to japan are americans and life in japan is just very, very different than in america, no matter how similar it can seem from a short visit. At uni we had japanese textbooks aimed at americans, and they talked about a lot of 'culture shock' things that wouldn't be a shock at all to germans. Also, a few japanese people have told me that germany feels like a less strict version of japan, but still familiar.
@sun@kaia I'm sure there are bad examples of discrimination in any country but as long as there's a connection to family and/or close friends, that's the important part I think
@kaia i always wonder how things are for foreigners in the rural areas of japan, provided they speak good japanese, know the social rules and try to not be annoying.