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   Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-2024 09:46:03 JST Sick Sun

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   • NonPlayableClown
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   @NonPlayableClown @Diceyocean @boomer @eriner @bot @Nudhul I don't actually know what they're thinking but I assumed some sort of different thought process was going on but didn't think about it explicitly until bot mentioned it. it's really not that bad. I don't have one on hand but sometimes I feel some people on fedi really fixate on an idea and keep coming back to it, and that they tie you somehow to that idea and whenever you add voice to the conversation, it feels like they can only integrate it through this existing lens, can't use new information to change the lens.
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-2024 09:48:11 JST Sick Sun

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     @NonPlayableClown @Diceyocean @Nudhul @boomer @bot @eriner I'm trying not to sound mean or sound like I'm looking down on them but it feels just so hard to talk to them and I actually feel bad about not being able to communicate effectively more than like, looking down on them or something. I don't usually see things that way, I try to see interactions with people as "different" not "better or worse"
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-2024 09:51:12 JST Sick Sun

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     • NonPlayableClown
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     • Nudhul
     • Based Ocean Enjoyer
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     @Nudhul @Diceyocean @NonPlayableClown @boomer @bot @eriner I had a short conversation with drew devault a couple months ago and he did the same thing, he latched on a few things I said and really zoomed in on them and then after that the conversation was framed permanently and I couldn't get back out and explain that I saw things differently in a way he would understand. it was very frustrating.
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     Nudhul (nudhul@shitposter.world)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-2024 09:51:13 JST Nudhul

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     @sun @Diceyocean @NonPlayableClown @boomer @bot @eriner do you mean that their first impression is how they will always see you as?