1 tripod in 3 trenchcoats
@cykonot @servelan I dunno, more like "if I ever had a choice I'd like to do it with you"
Now I don't know the situation at hand, but I know stupid and horny teenage boys. It just sounds like one of those stupid things they say because they can't even understand how it could be misinterpreted. Teenagers are DUMB, even if they aren't malicious.
On the other hand the guy might just have been an evil little shitnugget, so what do I know?
baconandcoconut
@cavyherd @kagan @kyonshi @cykonot @servelan This. And the earlier you find out that you're coming across like a r*pist, the better
Cavyherd
@kagan @kyonshi @cykonot @servelan
And if, historically, one's "normal or nice" conduct was consistently or repeatedly reacted to badly, it might worth having a good hard think about whether one's baseline for "normal and nice" is, in fact, not extremely problematic.
Kagan MacTane (he/him)
@kyonshi I can't understand how "Your body, my choice" could possibly be intended as a "normal or even nice" thing to say. To me, at least, its very plain, obvious intent seems to be, "I don't care about your choice, and will use your body however I see fit."
Can you explain to me how someone could mean this in a nice way?
1 tripod in 3 trenchcoats
@kagan @cykonot @servelan I'm just, you know, acting from my own experience of saying and doing stuff I thought was normal or even nice, and having it interpreted in the worst possible way.
I think a lot of people had that experience as teenagers, you know, that stuff you said where even years later you think back and get embarrassed about it?
I just don't wanna jump on the outrage train and call for a kid to be expelled if there's a chance that it might have been just stupidity.
Kagan MacTane (he/him)
@kyonshi You're *really* bending over backward to defend that guy, aren't you?
Why are you spending so much effort to defend him?
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@kyonshi May be you don’t know the meaning of the sentence:
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Hilary
@kyonshi @adelinej @kagan @cykonot @servelan
Good, but please in future be a LOT FASTER to accept and learn when people are telling you that you have got something wrong.
1 tripod in 3 trenchcoats
@adelinej @kagan @cykonot @servelan hmm, there goes my whole point. Yes, I didn't know this was an actual thing now.
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