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   :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:50 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

   Good morning folks

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:45 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Hell, I don't even fuckin' mean just romantic/sexual relationships.

     Your friends are gonna fuckin' change.

     You're gonna fuckin' change.

     and, again: hopefully you drift the same way, but, spoiler - not all of you will.

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:45 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     @DarkestKale Mmm, yeah, there's a selection of people who I was close to that are now at quite a fucking distance from, because I changed in conspicuously different ways to them.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:46 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     'Would you be upset if someone you were in a relationship voted differently to you?' replied with a bunch of WHY WOULD YOU BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T ALIGN WITH YOU.

     Because, my fuckin' DUDE, you may not realise this, but: people change. Just as you should

     Hopefully you drift in the same direction as your partner, but maybe you don't.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:46 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     'I WOULD NEVER MARRY SOMEONE WH-'

     Yeah, ok, but - again - people change after they get married.

     So what now, fucko?

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:46 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     You know how a while back I talked over how some folks - when asked a technically-impossible hypothetical refuse to answer because 'it's impossible, it won't happen, ever'?

     Like, I get that mindset, but it means you are gonna get A SURPRISE if you ever get into a relationship, because: people change.

     You change.

     Even if you don't realise it.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:46 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Sometimes the people who shout loudest about how relationships are... have clearly never been in one that lasted beyond a year.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:47 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     > This is an unmarked trail where you will have to route find and bushwack a bit, but it will take you to the most dramatic view of the coast.

     AKA: Australian gets lost in the USA.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:47 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Hey, American folks, help a boy out.

     When I go over there, I want to visit some theme parks/amusement parks. Go on rollercoasters, that kind of shit.

     I don't want the biggest and the best, I just want to go see some shiiiiiit.

     What search terms am I after? Does each state kind of have at least one, or is this seriously a 'go to Florida/California' kind of thing?

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:47 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Some folks out there have a REAL hard time considering the idea that a person you're in a relationship might change their political viewpoints over the time of your relationship.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:48 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     So, with that in mind - basically considering that if you stop kids from doing X, there's maybe 10% of those kids who are gonna get really good at getting around your walls around X...

     ... are we (Australia) just pulling some bullshit laws to in-house foster a bunch of l337 hax0r kids?

     Because that, my friends, would be fuckin' hilarious.

     #AusPol

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:48 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Lemme be clear here: morality-wise?

     Fuck, man, I dunno. I think there's a lot of negatives to social media, and I don't think that the internet is 'just let your kids on here, wooooo' - and it never, despite what people claim - fucking ever was to begin with.

     (in the late 90's, people just sent each other porn to family accts. It was just a 'LOL LOOK WHAT I FOUND' kinda thing. Shock sites got sent around, Screamer vids, all sorts of shit. To your family email acct, because that's all you HAD)

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:48 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     But, what I do know, is trying to enforce bullshit bans on tech you have zero fucking actual knowledge of?

     All you're gonna do is make people (in this case, KIDS) better at evading your controls.

     So... good?

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:48 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Most of the adults I know, who are actually motivated people and who do neat projects on the side, basically went through that 'fuck the security' phase.

     I know plenty of people who made money as a teen selling pirated CDs, etc

     ... and they're all very skilled individuals now.

     Maybe it's a crucible? Maybe the #AusPol gov't is trying to bootstrap a generation?

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:49 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Welcome, folks.

     Welcome back to #FlatFuckFriday

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:49 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     I can't say whether banning kids from social media *is* actually good, or bad. It's a nuanced thing, and I'm not even close to having all the thoughts marshalled on the topic.

     But I can speak on one facet.

     My school used to block various sites, hold down the network, all that kind of (smart, reasonable) stuff.

     What this did, was make me (and a handful of my friends) pretty good at evading network security. Not 1337 hax0r type stuff, but... good enough.

     #AusPol

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:49 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     ... now, what did we do with this nefarious knowledge?

     Well... some money may have exchanged hands with some of the kids who didn't have that knowledge.

     Don't ask me, I wasn't that interested in that part, I just wanted to work out how to do various things and was busy making games in Visual Basic and Logo.

     But, as I said: doing the reasonable thing and securing the network only made us good at evading those locks.

     #AusPol

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:32:50 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     Alright, let's get the fuck in there.

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:41:08 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     @DarkestKale Yeah, good take. It's the only way of approaching it really without ending up resentful, compromised, or fighting, assuming they're beyond nudging.

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     :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet: (darkestkale@mastodon.social)'s status on Friday, 08-Nov-2024 23:41:09 JST :trebuchet: Kale :trebuchet:

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     • 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

     @HauntedOwlbear I've come to accept that friends are - often - for a particular phase of your life. Like, you were compatible at a point in time and that's great, and maybe you're less compatible later down the track - and that's alright.

     But it's still ok to grieve those relationships when they fade, too.