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   Heather Cook🖖Autistic Coach (hmm_cook@universeodon.com)'s status on Thursday, 07-Nov-2024 23:01:10 JST Heather Cook🖖Autistic Coach

   People are going to respond to the exact same thing in different ways because they have their own histories, and you’re not going to be able to always know that.

   #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #AuDHD

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     Heather Cook🖖Autistic Coach (hmm_cook@universeodon.com)'s status on Saturday, 09-Nov-2024 06:18:35 JST Heather Cook🖖Autistic Coach

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     • Purturtle

     @purlturtle Yes! Absolutely!

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     Purturtle (purlturtle@mastodon.social)'s status on Saturday, 09-Nov-2024 06:18:36 JST Purturtle

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     @hmm_cook and! their reaction isn't your fault. It's not on you to anticipate every and any possible reaction, and you *cannot* (I can't stress this enough) communicate in such a way that you will 100% get your desired outcome or reaction from the other person.

     Communication is a two way street. A interaction between sender and receiver. It can go wrong at *either* end, and sometimes there's no one to blame at all.