@KatyElphinstone A better one. ☺️
1st, with a warning.
2nd, instigated by me.
Unless it's expected, like a relative who went came from abroad after so many years, I learned to expect them to bring the culture from abroad, like hugging for greetings, or the cheek / fake kiss (we call it in Filipino as "beso-beso", you touch your cheeks on theirs both sides while saying "muah" 🤷🏽), and just to avoid family/clan drama 😅
Beyond those, no surprises and let me signal first. It means I'm prepared for it.