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   Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:54 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

   • Hyolobrika
   • anemone
   • Arcana
   @Hyolobrika @anemone @arcana for a day???
   
   RT: https://social.fbxl.net/objects/2e74fb36-448e-4258-898a-27b97fe8c242
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:50 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     I have a friend who's brilliant. He has an advanced degree, writes for a major newspapers, etc., but has no social skills whatsoever.
     
     For example, one time we got to a bar in Berkeley early on a Friday and took the biggest booth. A few hours later, two couples came in and asked us if they could sit at our booth. They offered to pay for drinks for the night. Sure... why not.
     
     At some point, one of the guys starts talking about taking his girlfriend to strip clubs. Girlfriend is at the table too. My friend starts arguing with girlfriend about how she's actually not ok with it. Everyone, including me, is like "chill." I politely remind him that we have free drinks for the night.
     
     He keeps at it and it gets to the point where there's about to be a fist fight. I had to drag him out. I did this many times in college. He did the shit, drunk or not.
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     anemone@ebiverse.social's status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:51 JST anemone

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     • Hyolobrika
     • Arcana

     @Diceyocean@annihilation.social @Hyolobrika@social.fbxl.net @arcana@fedi.layer02.net autism is an actual developmental disorder not a catchall for anything you don't like

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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:51 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @anemone @Hyolobrika @arcana autistic people who can't communicate don't understand that they have a problem understanding social cues since they don't understand when someone tells them that due to not knowing what social cues mean
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     anemone@ebiverse.social's status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:52 JST anemone

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     • Hyolobrika
     • Arcana

     @Diceyocean@annihilation.social @Hyolobrika@social.fbxl.net @arcana@fedi.layer02.net this isn't talking it's asynchronous communication

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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:52 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @anemone @Hyolobrika @arcana it seems like this person is suffering autism
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:53 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @anemone @Hyolobrika @arcana you know talking is a spontaneous activity that flows naturally and by instinct. You don't wait a day to make a response it's supposed to be a ability we are born with
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     anemone@ebiverse.social's status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:11:54 JST anemone

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     • Hyolobrika
     • Arcana

     @Diceyocean@annihilation.social @Hyolobrika@social.fbxl.net @arcana@fedi.layer02.net

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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:16:17 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     Not really. He's not built to win fist fights. That's why I had to drag him out. 😒
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:16:18 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Humpleupagus @anemone @arcana @Hyolobrika at least he stood his ground. He would make a good cowboy 🤠
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:19:06 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Frondeur
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     > I'm not retarded, I'm just skilled differently.
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     Frondeur (frondeur@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:19:07 JST Frondeur

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Humpleupagus @Diceyocean @anemone @arcana @Hyolobrika >no social skills...
     
     sounds like he just is differently skilled...
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:20:54 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Humpleupagus @anemone @arcana @Hyolobrika I have a similar story about traveling to Switzerland and everyone was enjoying the music in car while the guy was saying whole trip he didn't like that type of music through the trip in the alpes beatiful surroundings. He just couldn't let the issue about him not liking the music while we were saying we liked it
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:20:54 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     It was New Kids in the Block though. Keep hanging tough!
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:26:50 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Hyolobrika
     • Hoss Delgado
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     He was. That's why I kept him around. I think that was the night we raced a couple of bicyclist down a hill on a book cart found outside of the library. 😏
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     Hoss Delgado (hoss@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:26:51 JST Hoss Delgado

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     Your friend sounds entertaining.
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:33:12 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Hyolobrika @anemone @Humpleupagus @arcana it's part of understanding when the other 4 people like it you have to suck it up. We can't only listen to music you like
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     Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:33:12 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Hyolobrika @Humpleupagus @anemone @arcana this same guy didn't understand why he couldn't sit in front seat when one in the car had a bandaged leg and needed to sit in front seat. He always sat in front seat so he was incapable of understanding why he couldn't now
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     Hyolobrika (hyolobrika@social.fbxl.net)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:33:13 JST Hyolobrika

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Diceyocean @anemone @Humpleupagus @arcana I would have done the same. Why should I let someone's shitty music ruin my day?
     
     That probably is genuinely an autism thing though, noise sensitivity and all that.
     
     I have noise-cancelling headphones, but they don't always work.
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:44:36 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • Frondeur
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     Unlimbed? 🤔
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     Frondeur (frondeur@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 18-Oct-2024 08:44:37 JST Frondeur

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     • ?? Humpleupagus ??
     • Hyolobrika
     • anemone
     • Arcana
     @Humpleupagus @Diceyocean @anemone @arcana @Hyolobrika exactly...bigot...oh...apparently differently abled is a slur now...
     
     betterup.com/blog/differently-abled