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   Blaise Pabón - controlpl4n3 (blaise@hachyderm.io)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 07:57:03 JST Blaise Pabón - controlpl4n3

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   • AppleFanboy

   @AppleFanboy
   Pro tip: animal shelters and veterinary clinics (anywhere you find women who like #dogs )

   @pattykimura

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     AppleFanboy (applefanboy@beige.party)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 07:57:04 JST AppleFanboy

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     • Duckbilled Plattypus.

     @pattykimura Thanks for the encouragement. This is what makes Mastodon so great. 💜

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     Duckbilled Plattypus. (pattykimura@beige.party)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 07:57:05 JST Duckbilled Plattypus.

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     @AppleFanboy Oh, so a romantic foul mood. Again, not my forte. I will say I unexpectedly met someone when I was in my 50s and that was it! She lived states away. We figured it out. Have been happily together and married now for years, and time has flown by. Geography doesn't have to be determinative.
     Good luck.

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     AppleFanboy (applefanboy@beige.party)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 07:57:07 JST AppleFanboy

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     • Duckbilled Plattypus.

     @pattykimura I already volunteer my free time to non-profits, donate to childhood charities, and am always there to anonymously help anyone that needs help. The problem is I live in deep red MAGA country and super liberal. I am at a point where I’m about to just completely give up. If the right person for me exists chances are she lives far away and we will never meet. And it’s frustrating.

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     @AppleFanboy I'm an old lady, so my advice may not be useful.

     Do something anonymously kind for someone else. Expect no thanks, seek none out.

     And keep the secret of your kindness or generosity to yourself. It becomes a bright glowing secret that is all your own. I find it brightens up the foul dark days.

     Go outside, into the sunlight or the starlight. Breathe in the air. Focus on it. This moment is yours, only yours. To keep for yourself.

     Best wishes.

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     AppleFanboy (applefanboy@beige.party)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 07:57:09 JST AppleFanboy

     Someone want to cheer me up? I’m starting to get in a foul mood. I don’t understand. I’m a good looking dude. Homeowner, well educated, good job. WTF?