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   miauz genyau (mia@movsw.0x0.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:11:56 JST miauz genyau

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   @bl00d @cell because apparently it's said to be a thing especially with childhood trauma survivors. the lower the sleeves, the deeper the lore

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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:12:27 JST meso

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     @lucy @mia @cell @bl00d BPD is a characterization of behavior patterns, it's derived from one's formative experiences and trauma rather than being something inherent to someone
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     :blobcatflower: (methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:12:28 JST :blobcatflower:

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     @mia @cell @bl00d did i tell you how i scored 2nd highest in some online bpd test?
     
     in a /tttt/ thread?
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:13:19 JST meso

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     @lucy @bl00d @cell @mia i strongly believe this, i don't think it's the same as adhd or similar for example where it's inherent to someone
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:14:19 JST meso

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     @bl00d @cell @lucy @mia i'm kinda surprised you'd score high tbh you seem way better at rationalizing your emotions than all BPD people I've seen
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     :blobcatflower: (methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:17:56 JST :blobcatflower:

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     @meso @mia @cell @bl00d hiding my powerlevel a lot lately.
     e.g. im actively constricting myself to act against my gut instincts with certain people i decided to trust
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:23:12 JST meso

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     @lucy @mia @cell @bl00d I am generally very deeply paranoid and I've gone against my gut instincts to trust a lot of people and maybe I'd be doing better if I hadn't. though I think most of the mistakes in my judgment were in cases where the other person was actually a piece of shit and I was too much of a pussy.
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     :blobcatflower: (methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:31:14 JST :blobcatflower:

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     @meso @mia @cell @bl00d i don't really like talking about this tbh. don't want to be seen as a "bpdemon".
     im not okay and i know that but i used to be so much worse and i try to get better. that's all i wanted to tell.
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     :blobcatflower: (methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:48:12 JST :blobcatflower:

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     @meso @bl00d @cell @mia at least mia is not pushing me away when i have certified lucy moments or gives me irl wrenching for these posts
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     miauz genyau (mia@movsw.0x0.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 03:56:25 JST miauz genyau

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     @lucy @meso @bl00d @cell bpd isn't any less permanent than adhd because childhood trauma that severe does affect brain development quite significantly and irreversibly
     
     but it affects everyone differently, and some can learn to cope with it pretty well. neuroplasticity is still a thing after all.

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