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   Albastı (pressure@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:34:15 JST Albastı
   opphunter88 was the funniest name.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:34:12 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     Why tf are you fighting with your ex??
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     Albastı (pressure@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:34:13 JST Albastı

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     • Niggy Hardare
     @J Holy shit are you gonna cry?
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:34:13 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @pressure No I’m just in a pissy mood. Been fighting with my ex for a week.

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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:34:14 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @pressure Thanks I didn’t pick it. It was just a friend’s who gave me an old Discord handle to troll with.

     It’s nice knowing the best parts about me are the ones I have no part in.

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:40:28 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     You do give off reasonable vibes so this is crazy..
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:40:29 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @bot @pressure We are both selfish romantically immature spergs and are not willing to give what the other wants.

     Except what I want is reasonable and what she wants is insane.

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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:55:11 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @bot @pressure She wants us to be temporarily separate while she “sorts her mental health out” (has never happened once in the history of womankind.) She also doesn’t want me to stop talking to her during this time, but we’ve been very sexually active for this entire period and I’m not willing to go back to just being friends. That’s retarded. We were never friends, we started off with a sexual relationship, and if that’s gone, we have no reason to speak at all.

     I even told her “If you need a break from this, I’ll give you a month to yourself, then we’ll come back with a fresh perspective.” Because I was getting sick of her increasingly bratty attitude too and needed a break.

     But she didn’t want to do that, because she thinks any obligation in the future is literally an unbearable burden, she wants to come back whenever she feels like it, fuck my plans. She says I should feel free to move on, but firstly, I don’t want to, I actually like her, and secondly, she still talks to me every day and gets pissed off when I so much as mention another girl, so we’re stuck in this retarded toxic loop until she either opens her legs back up or I cut her off.

     The whole thing feels like a giant shit test to see who’s more stubborn, which would be fine, but the stakes are annoying. In all ways except her spoiled attitude, she is a remarkable woman.

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 11:55:11 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     Well you know she's super into you if she needs a month long break.. you should definitely continue this relationship, it seems like it could be worth it
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:02:42 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     If you consent to the cuck fantasy then ok ig
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:02:43 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @bot @pressure I’m the one who suggested that, she won’t do it. She still wants to talk all the time. If she just wanted no contact for a month, it would be easy.

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     Albastı (pressure@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:03:11 JST Albastı

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     • Niggy Hardare
     @J @bot She's looking to make a clean break from you while also softening the impact of the separation on herself by maintaining a thread of emotional intimacy while she finds the next thing. You should probably end it outright, she's setting you up for a parasitic friendzoney situation.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:08:55 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     There's nothing weird about month long breaks from ppl you respect and want to be with
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:08:56 JST Niggy Hardare

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     • Niggy Hardare

     @pressure @bot Your intuition is on point though. All of her friends are guys who either want to fuck her, or exes that she keeps around as backups. She’s somewhat popular in cosplayer cliques so she gets way too much attention and is very comfortable doing this.

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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:08:57 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @pressure @bot I agree that this is probably what she’s doing, but she’s also a very high quality woman, so I’m going to wrestle her back if I can. If it becomes clear that I can’t, then I’m going to cut her off, but I have a feeling as soon as I do that, I’m going to be dealing with IRL harassment yet again and I really don’t want to.

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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:14:20 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Niggy Hardare
     Right, you want to be part of a cuck fantasy, it doesn't matter if it's one day or a million days. She doesn't respect you, just end it ffs
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     Niggy Hardare (j@cawfee.club)'s status on Thursday, 03-Oct-2024 12:14:21 JST Niggy Hardare

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     @bot @pressure You just called it a cuck fantasy.

     She doesn’t want a month long break, this is what I tried to get her to agree to. She wants a vague indefinite “finding herself” period where she goes to lots of therapy and does whatever girls do when they’re pretending to work on themselves. Probably she’ll play Valorant or something.