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I would go see male strippers
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@iwillbite why though? if you wanna be with ripped guy, just goto gym and hit on shy dude working out
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@iwillbite they may invite you onstage for a lapdance, be careful, it might be very dangerous (and sexy!)
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@kaia I’m shy of men at the gym tbh
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@kaia @iwillbite male strippers want to be looked at, that's why they are there
men at the gym are there to work out so its kinda weird to go there to look at them
(i also prefer the gym just acknowledge its weird
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@Paulajak @iwillbite
not look at them. just find hunky shy dude and ask whether you wanna grab cofe. girls can date upwards 1-2 categories like that. if you are weird, feisty and lewd enough probably more
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@kaia @Paulajak @iwillbite absolutely great and true advice, men these days are timid, soft, and shy, girls need to learn to wear the pants and initiate the relationships, all guys want is some lurrrve and some caring attention, then they're yours
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@iwillbite @Paulajak @jesu
trick is to find dude who's quite shy. even if he doesn't like you, he won't be mean. you look at him until he notices. you check whether he blushes. if he blushes sufficiently, you go over and ask for cofe at convenient juncture. almost zero risk. if he says no, you can think it's the shyness :ChenShrug:
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@jesu @Paulajak @kaia I find that so hard tho 🥲
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@Paulajak @jesu @iwillbite
this is not my expertise at all. maybe better don't do it as a trans girl, since you don't know how guy will react. you can chat guys up on Discord or whatever. or just find a handsome chaser? :floofWoozy_256: I know you have some qt
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@kaia @jesu @iwillbite is there a way to do this if you're miserably ugly?
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@iwillbite @Paulajak @jesu
nah, don't be sexy or weird to shy guys. dress modestly, don't show much cleavage. just be nice. if you approach him, you'll make his week.
you can also use a ruse like "hey this is great form, can you show me how you do this?" if you need a starting point.
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@kaia @Paulajak @jesu should I bend and snap in front of them first?
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@kaia @Paulajak @iwillbite actually you can just walk up sometimes, make smalltalk, then cofe invitation! no need to always test the waters with a look waiting for a look back, guys are dumb, the shy ones are like "she's just looking around haha she wasn't looking at me" but don't be too bold/assertive or too quiet/reserved, just be true and earnest :3 shy guys love attention but they're tender hearted and usually gentle... a cofe invitation is the spark to light the fire, but the smalltalk and simple convo is like the kindling, you need both to start a fire between you :) just feel the man out, he'll be easy to read with a woman's intuition, but really, he'll be oblivious until you say "let's do cofe sometime?" that's the dead giveaway for the clueless ones :3
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@kaia @Paulajak @iwillbite I use this pickup line all the time "the way you awkwardly stare at the ground turns me on, can I suck your dick?" /sssssssss
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@iwillbite @Paulajak @kaia I need a trains man from india, it's a hard job but it's honest pay for honest work.
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@jesu @Paulajak @kaia so true!
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@iwillbite @Paulajak @kaia men everywhere suck, all men are scummy pigs
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@jesu @Paulajak @kaia men in California suck tho
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@iwillbite @Paulajak @kaia maybe do that on date 3 or 5 or something? if joking then invite them to a walk in the park while doing it
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