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   Spooky Scary SkeleLenn 💀:fmb: (lennby@laconic.social)'s status on Saturday, 28-Sep-2024 01:15:14 JST Spooky Scary SkeleLenn 💀:fmb:

   came out as poly to two former coworker friends and i was not prepared for their question of "what if multiple parters want to watch the same tv show?"

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     🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️ (jepyang@wandering.shop)'s status on Saturday, 28-Sep-2024 01:15:08 JST 🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️

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     • Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️

     @lennby @Willow - separate streaming profiles for various polycule configurations
     - communicate!!
     - be ok with watching the same thing more than once
     - parallel watching
     - take it seriously! in the moment it can feel like a frivolous thing but if it’s a common quality-partner-time activity then it really can sting when a partner watches something you were looking forward to without you
     - find stuff your other partners don’t care to watch
     - mistakes will still happen

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     Spooky Scary SkeleLenn 💀:fmb: (lennby@laconic.social)'s status on Saturday, 28-Sep-2024 01:15:09 JST Spooky Scary SkeleLenn 💀:fmb:

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     • Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️

     @Willow @jepyang
     :zerotwo_cheeky:
     the short answer is we watch all together if we can!

     carl marks repeated this.
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     Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️ (willow@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Saturday, 28-Sep-2024 01:15:11 JST Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️

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     • 🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️

     @jepyang @lennby I HAVE BEEN WONDERING THIS SAME THING.

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     🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️ (jepyang@wandering.shop)'s status on Saturday, 28-Sep-2024 01:15:13 JST 🕷️spooky jepyang 🕸️

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     @lennby lmao i love that this is their big concern about polyamory and i love/hate that THEY’RE NOT WRONG