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   BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@social.beaware.live)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Sep-2024 13:14:58 JST BeAware :fediverse:

   This place feels pretty bad more times than not these days.

   Try to help someone, that help doesn't matter. Ignored.

   Share my opinion. That opinion is somehow wrong, even though it's an opinion.

   Share my experience. My experience is belittled as insufficient to support my opinion.

   What can I say that won't get vilified and/or opposed?

   Idk anymore and it's pretty fucking shitty.

   There may not be an algorithm here, but I damn sure feel like I have to use weird psychology to figure out what I can and cannot say because if I talk about the wrong things, someone is gonna reply and say something to oppose it or I'll just get flat out ignored.😒

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     Adventurer #Harris (adventurer@sfba.social)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Sep-2024 13:22:33 JST Adventurer #Harris

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     @BeAware
     Hi. I can only respond to one of your situations from a relevant point of view. Specifically having help ignored. I recently found responses to my posts that I missed. I don't know why but I felt sort of bad for not even acknowledging the response. But I am a small account and don't interact much. I am thinking a more active account might really lose the response which feels better than feeling ignored. 🤗

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     BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@social.beaware.live)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Sep-2024 13:22:33 JST BeAware :fediverse:

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     • Adventurer #Harris

     @Adventurer well, do you mean that I am losing the response or the other person is?

     I guess if the other person is, that feels better, but to eventually respond would be better than to never respond.

     If you mean the former, I don't think that's happening tbh. I am here almost always, but I do see everything that comes my way with a reply or mention. It would definitely feel strange if I find out that I've somehow missed responses.😬

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     BeAware :fediverse: (beaware@social.beaware.live)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Sep-2024 14:36:14 JST BeAware :fediverse:

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     • Adventurer #Harris

     @Adventurer yeah that does make sense.

     Mine is a tad more complicated and I think it's in part due to the fact that I have a small following that's actually bigger than most.😬

     More than likely a deeply personal experience we are both experiencing with that.

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     Adventurer #Harris (adventurer@sfba.social)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Sep-2024 14:36:15 JST Adventurer #Harris

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     @BeAware
     Thanks for muddling through my phrasing issues.

     Definitely I mean the person receiving the response may not be seeing them because a bunch of other posts came into their feed. I am by no means qualified to speak on how this fediverse works. I keep my main scrolling on my home feed so I get responses and all the hashtag and posts from people I follow there. Lately I have been trying to train myself to scroll back because I am not seeing a bunch of things such as responses. I like seriously have to do this and use likes to try to find what I left off. it's important to me to at least acknowledge I saw someone. I have missed even simple things like a response to what type of flooring some DIY person was using. When they didn't respond I assumed they never saw my post. I was so surprised when I found they had answered and I hadn't seen it for 2 weeks. So to make myself feel better I always just assume it wasn't seen.

     Your situation sounds much more complicated. I hope for a positive outcome for you