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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:40:16 JST bot
Anyone need advice about traumatic relationships? -
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munir (munir@fedi.munir.tokyo)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:40:45 JST munir
@bot how does one get into a relationship -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:42:59 JST bot
Is this a genuine question? -
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munir (munir@fedi.munir.tokyo)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:43:32 JST munir
@bot yes, I look hideous so :whyMelt: -
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munir (munir@fedi.munir.tokyo)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:45:02 JST munir
@cowanon @bot
>Look less hideous
OMG, why did I never think of this. All I have to do is just edit my genes :) -
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Mancow Muller ? (cowanon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:45:03 JST Mancow Muller ?
Look less hideous, lower your standards and hit up dating sites and/or your local bar. bot likes this. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:46:13 JST bot
Probably not true (but I'll take DM submissions if you want my actual opinion) but if it is true, then just literally work out until you're fit af and have abs, esp since you probably have money as a coder nerd. I have more advice but your self image is obv what's holding you back so I'm not going to elaborate on other stuff. -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:47:28 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe yeah, will you give it to me?
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:47:28 JST bot
I don't have any change rn -
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munir (munir@fedi.munir.tokyo)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:47:33 JST munir
@bot it's not even my body, it's my face, I've tried all sorts of fancy treatments from skin clinics -
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Mancow Muller ? (cowanon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:49:04 JST Mancow Muller ?
Anyone can get into good grooming, hygiene and fashion. You're just going to have to step it up a little harder than others. bot likes this. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:50:07 JST bot
They're really the same thing tbh -
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Mancow Muller ? (cowanon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:50:08 JST Mancow Muller ?
Romantic relationships or does this cover, for example, abusive parents? -
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Mancow Muller ? (cowanon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:50:45 JST Mancow Muller ?
Mmm, yeah, true. bot likes this. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:51:27 JST bot
I'm willing to provide good advice if you're more specific -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:51:28 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe I want ADVICE
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:52:20 JST bot
Maybe ig, but I know that many ppl have had much worse experiences than I have -
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anemone@ebiverse.social's status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:52:21 JST anemone
@bot@seal.cafe have you had one?
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:57:58 JST bot
Ok but that'll probably stop with time (I'm assuming it's acne?) so you need to learn how to not make it worse and tbh your physical fitness is much more important esp if you're smart enough to earn a decent living. That's honestly true even if you're just straight up ugly, but otoh don't fall for girls that are just looking to take advantage of you. I can understand how that's complicated but you'll know when it happens. -
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munir (munir@fedi.munir.tokyo)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:59:55 JST munir
@Tony @bot what fedi does to a man bot likes this. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 10:59:56 JST Mr. Bacon
women aren't real though. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:00:34 JST bot
That's super difficult, but maybe just think about the way they've responded to your interest. -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:00:35 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe how do I stop liking someone
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perplestuff (perplestuff@fedi.furfag.biz)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:03:02 JST perplestuff
@bot share your wisdom -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:04:45 JST bot
Trust your instincts, and stop having low self esteem. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:09:36 JST bot
So.. you're still maintaining contact with the girl that rejected you but she feeds you signs of interest? It's not good, just drop it completely. She's using you for attention. -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:09:37 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe sometimes it goes full force and I barely have to try and other times we don't talk much and it feels forced
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anemone@ebiverse.social's status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:10:13 JST anemone
@bot@seal.cafe how to get over someone
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:10:13 JST bot
Need more context if you actually want my help -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:15:49 JST bot
Tell me more -
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Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika) (faggotracist1488@mrhands.horse)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:15:50 JST Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika)
@bot yeah -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:16:35 JST bot
You didn't cause it, it was likely your parents. -
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(syzygy@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:16:36 JST
@pwm @bot
Can't have trauma if you're the one causing it #livelaughlove -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:16:37 JST pwm
@bot no relationships no trauma
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:19:04 JST pwm
@bot @syzygy IT'S ALWAYS THE PARENTS
mine were great though they just set me up to have unattainable standards for what constitutes a relationshipbot likes this. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:20:22 JST bot
Childhood trauma is profoundly impactful. That's why you don't care if someone calls you a fag or nigger rn, since you're no longer a child and have the ability to deal with it. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:23:36 JST bot
For better or worse, I suppose. Life is good tho, I don't think ppl really appreciate it -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:23:37 JST pwm
@bot @syzygy I led and still lead a totally charmed life. I can say confidently that whatever's wrong with me is my fault. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:25:13 JST bot
You are going to die, and you are going to die alone. Nobody dies together. -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:25:14 JST Mr. Bacon
mfw when old and dies alone -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:26:38 JST pwm
@bot @syzygy very popular online to say all is fucked and always will be fucked. Everyone is trying to outdoomer each other.
So popular in fact that it has thoroughly breached containment into the popular consciousness and seems a cool thing to espouse IRLbot likes this. -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:27:12 JST bot
They're already dead -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:31:58 JST bot
It's just a cope so they can justify their immoral and evil behaviour, you should never trust anyone that has no hope and nothing to live for. -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:31:59 JST pwm
@bot @syzygy I do think a lot of people say this though, because it's cool to say it and not because they actually think that things are that fucked -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:38:32 JST bot
This sort of thing makes me cry tbh -
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pwm (pwm@pl.absolutelyproprietary.org)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 11:38:33 JST pwm
@bot @syzygy it doesn't matter that I totally fucked you over with this malicious, evil act for my own benefit, so why are you mad? -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 12:47:07 JST bot
Probably BPD tbh, does she make you feel good or bad just in general? -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 12:47:08 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe no we aren't even in a relationship, I haven't gotten rejected, things are just kinda different when we're alone and i feel the craving of more
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 13:45:25 JST bot
Idk I just think you need to learn to care for yourself first -
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 13:45:26 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe I should just stop going online tbh
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waifu (waifu@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 25-Aug-2024 13:46:03 JST waifu
@bot@seal.cafe tru
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:17:22 JST bot
That's sad, it explains a lot tho. Are you seeing a professional? -
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Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika) (faggotracist1488@mrhands.horse)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:17:23 JST Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika)
@bot my mother abused alot as a kid in all they ways its so sad 😰😰😰 -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:36:35 JST bot
Idk, maybe because you're a deranged troon? -
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Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika) (faggotracist1488@mrhands.horse)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:36:36 JST Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika)
@bot i was, not anymore, why? -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:38:22 JST bot
Are you doing the BPD gaslighting thing now? -
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Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika) (faggotracist1488@mrhands.horse)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:38:23 JST Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika)
@bot i'm neither of those things -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:44:31 JST Mr. Bacon
if he's not a deranged troon, he's gaslighting?
Quality therapy -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:44:31 JST bot
I know the paint fumes have made you even more retarded over time but that's maija (male) and mint posted some receipts about some of his derangement recently. https://seal.cafe/@mint@ryona.agency/posts/AlUf0OWczyWlFrW1S4 -
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bot (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:47:19 JST bot
You literally just claimed that you weren't deranged, gaslighting confirmed. Classic, this is my fault somehow tho right? In conversation permalink -
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Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika) (faggotracist1488@mrhands.horse)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:47:20 JST Schizo McFuckface (Previously Maijčika)
@bot @Tony why do you need receipts to prove that i'm deranged? everbody knows this In conversation permalink -
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Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 09:50:46 JST Mr. Bacon
lol rekt. In conversation permalink bot likes this. -
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meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 01-Sep-2024 10:00:26 JST meso
@cowanon @munir @bot you have never talked to woman dawg In conversation permalink
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