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   ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:12:40 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

   • iced depresso
   • Johnny Peligro
   • Arcana
   • Sick Sun
   > I'll tell you who is miserable, women stuck in relationships with shitty men.
   
   
   What I read: women have no responsibility or agency.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:16:28 JST iced depresso

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     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     @Humpleupagus this used to be significantly more true before gen x where the workforce was significantly more atomized on the lines of race and sex.
     
     nowadays its kind of :blobcatdunno: i presume some of the units stay together because the person isn't bad enough to make preferring crippling loneliness better.
     
     though the de-atomization of job potential came with the skyrocket of land prices, so there's a large financial burden to escaping as well.
     
     @arcana @mischievoustomato @sun
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     PeachySummer (peachysummer@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:18:58 JST PeachySummer

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     • iced depresso
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     Hahaha how is being stuck in bad relationships real nigga?
     Just dip out.
     Pack up and leave hahahaha
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:18:58 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • iced depresso
     • PeachySummer
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     Stop shoving it in my face. 😒
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:19:37 JST iced depresso

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     • iced depresso
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     @Humpleupagus @arcana @mischievoustomato @sun where i get very annoyed are cases like
     
     :blobfox: i want you to keep the tea bags in your room
     :blobcat2: 🆗 to do that what i need you to do is adjust the legs on this table
     :blobfox_w_: acceptable
     [fox proceeds to take 8 months to actually do it]
     :blobfoxscared: oh my god i had to put up with these tea bags for eight months!
     :gutkato_strabas:
     
     i'm sure there are many variations of this kind of thing.
     
     another was a tradeoff program of cooking/cleaning that syncopated and the woman was just like "well i cleaned twice so i'm going to just be a logjam now" and its like
     
     :blobcatdunno: i ain't gonna tell you how to be anymore but i can say stuff like his is how peace dies
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:19:46 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • iced depresso
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     But if true, that would be true of both sides, and not particular to women.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:20:37 JST iced depresso

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     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     @Humpleupagus @arcana @mischievoustomato @sun men also don't leave women they've stopped liking for quite a while
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:22:40 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • iced depresso
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     I don't have these problems. My wife and I don't fight, we just fuck it out. Simple as. 😏
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:24:13 JST iced depresso

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     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     @Humpleupagus @arcana @mischievoustomato @sun i prefer to negotiate with people but generally they aren't interested.
     
     i'm much happier just communicating deadlines and expectations and going ok let me know if you need something for this.
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Friday, 16-Aug-2024 11:29:36 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     • iced depresso
     • Johnny Peligro
     • Arcana
     • Sick Sun
     Maybe it's the romantic spic in me, but relationships aren't negotiations. Relationships arise from physical attraction. The rest spins out from there. Contracts are so germanic. 😒