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   freon (freon@oasys.earth)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:30:02 JST freon

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   @Diceynes@annihilation.social @icedquinn@blob.cat my (midwestern USA) family (my side of it, anyway) is a prime example of this. i get the feeling it's 50/50 throughout this country given the culture war cancer metastasizing everywhere

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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:30:00 JST iced depresso

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     @freon @Diceynes i mean i didn't get to enjoy life much prior to that either. it was political correctness before it was full-on communism. and my dad was an alcoholic narcicist who would set me down for 3-4 hour star chamber sessions to make sure i repeated his mantras about how worthless subhuman spoiled creature i was and the mother just let it all happen as long as she got hers. :comfystoner:
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:40:18 JST iced depresso

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     @freon @Diceynes we did eventually leave but not until i was like 28 or something.
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     freon (freon@oasys.earth)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:40:19 JST freon

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     @Diceynes@annihilation.social @icedquinn@blob.cat it's funny because my mom has been the sole breadwinner for almost a decade
     
     domestic violence be like that

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     Salty Ocean Freedom (diceynes@annihilation.social)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:40:20 JST Salty Ocean Freedom

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     @icedquinn @freon usually if the mother doesn’t protect the children it can turn very bad for them. She needs to take charge if the father is evil and leave
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:41:28 JST iced depresso

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     @freon @Diceynes problem is she got an IT job and like all IT staff (piss be upon them) became completely devoid of empathy and just turned in to a carbon copy of the dad without the alcohol.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:44:55 JST iced depresso

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     @Diceynes @freon literally spent the last year being bullied over a bedframe i never asked for, already went through the anguish of severing its importance to me, cleared it for disposal, was standing at the door on garbage day to haul out, and she kept it just to have something to bully me about for another six months but now tries to play victim how she's traumatized over fighting about it.
     
     i actually can't sleep in beds very well they used to threaten to take my furniture for not being a good enough abuse slave so i learned to sleep on chairs and couches :neofox_up_paws:
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:47:00 JST iced depresso

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     @Diceynes @freon i have never felt like they did. like anyone ever did.
     
     they spend some money, then they abuse you for being too big of an expense.
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     Salty Ocean Freedom (diceynes@annihilation.social)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:47:01 JST Salty Ocean Freedom

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     @freon @icedquinn even though my parents barely talked to me growing up, I was mostly left to do things by myself no hugs or I love you, it’s how they were brought up themselves, I instinctively knew they loved me.
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 13-Aug-2024 08:48:03 JST iced depresso

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     @Diceynes @freon in the past four days alone "here's a new TV to replace your old one" "your disabled ass is too expensive"