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   kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:49:14 JST kaia
   before I went cycling for the first time with the bf, I vetted him so much. he was the first dude I seriously dated, so I wanted to be sure. I talked to my aunt, his mum, his sister, checked on his friends, had a cybersecurity friend check him out online everywhere. it was a good decision and I think it worked out for him as well :BagThumb:
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     on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:50:21 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ

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     @kaia i heard that many people who study psychology are somewhat neurotic
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:53:03 JST kaia

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     no friends, no hobbies, no ambitions. his mom or my aunt trying to rationalize something he had done or trying to hide it. weird comments online, especially racist or sexist or incel-vibes.
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     relentless_eduardo (relentless_eduardo@freeatlantis.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:53:04 JST relentless_eduardo

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     @kaia

     what would have been the deal breakers and red flags, if any?

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     bartholin (bartholin@fops.cloud)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:53:13 JST bartholin

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     @kaia It's easier to join the German secret service than to date kaia
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     eemmaa (eemmaa@soc0.outrnat.nl)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:53:56 JST eemmaa

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     @kaia@brotka.st I am a felon and I am dangerous

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:54:22 JST kaia

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     @eemmaa I know there are girls who are super into that, but it's not for me :floofWoozy_256:
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     eemmaa (eemmaa@soc0.outrnat.nl)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 19:56:02 JST eemmaa

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     @kaia@brotka.st I don’t like women anyway, they smell bad

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     「セル」cell (سل) (cell@pl.ebin.zone)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:11:16 JST 「セル」cell (سل)

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     @kaia how many people on fedi has kaia vetted 😇
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     Sun Microdevil Pte Ltd (koakuma@uwu.social)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:39:41 JST Sun Microdevil Pte Ltd

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     @cell @kaia Being stalk-I mean vetted by kaia... :blobcatpeekaboo:

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:51:17 JST kaia

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     • relentless_eduardo
     @relentless_eduardo
     - "she's a slut because guys like her"
     - "I hate everyone"
     - "I'm special/better because I don't go party"
     - "I'm much smarter than the average guy and girls don't like me. shows they only go for chads! fucking stacies!"
     - "I don't need anyone, because I'm much smarter/stronger. I don't need dumb stacy girlfriends"
     
     stuff like that
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     relentless_eduardo (relentless_eduardo@freeatlantis.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:51:18 JST relentless_eduardo

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     @kaia

     what is an incel vibe?

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:53:42 JST kaia

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     • relentless_eduardo
     @relentless_eduardo oh and bad takes on human anatomy like that pussies wear out and get loose if a dick's too big. that especially in a racist context about women who dated a black guy before.
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     bartholin (bartholin@fops.cloud)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 20:54:51 JST bartholin

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     • relentless_eduardo
     @kaia @relentless_eduardo >no friends
     >no hobbies
     >no ambitions
     >weird comments online
     
     it's over lads :ketsgun:
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     Pleroma-tan (kirby@lab.nyanide.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 21:02:18 JST Pleroma-tan

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     • relentless_eduardo
     @kaia @relentless_eduardo I'm never getting a girl :fubukiD:
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     tsoifan1997 (sysrq@lab.nyanide.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 21:03:13 JST tsoifan1997

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     @kaia @relentless_eduardo
     Thank goodness women aren't real.
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     relentless_eduardo (relentless_eduardo@freeatlantis.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 21:27:22 JST relentless_eduardo

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     @kirby @kaia

     maybe a plastic doll

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     Pleroma-tan (kirby@lab.nyanide.com)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 21:27:40 JST Pleroma-tan

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     • relentless_eduardo
     @relentless_eduardo @kaia Preferable
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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 23:55:48 JST kaia

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     • Paradox
     @Paradox no :sadcat: I can't go and ask him whether I may check him out before we are even dating
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     Paradox (paradox@raru.re)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 23:55:49 JST Paradox

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     @kaia I hope you got his consent to do all that.

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     Paradox (paradox@raru.re)'s status on Saturday, 27-Jul-2024 23:59:46 JST Paradox

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     @kaia "Hey dude, if we're gonna date, I'm going to do some background checks on you. Is that okay with you?"

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     kaia (kaia@brotka.st)'s status on Sunday, 28-Jul-2024 00:01:32 JST kaia

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     • Paradox
     @Paradox "I'm going to need your past girlfriends, so I can ask them about your performance overall" :fernsmug:
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