@teto do you procrastinate at work a lot? do you have difficulties physically starting a task you despise? do you have issues completing tasks in a timely and complete manner?
@kaia I "procrastinate" at work because all admins do. I learned this in apprenticeship. (it's called killing time cuz theres nothing to do). But when I have actual tasks I get them done quickly. I usually get to tasks right away. Or I wouldnt have decided to get a house within like 2 months of getting to 50k/year salary. Worst I do is not put away my dishes immediately.
@kaia I have a friend who was diagnosed with ADHD and took meds as a kid. He stopped taking them as an adult and still became an IT department lead in frankfurt. Your field is about the most woman thing I can imagine. Tons of older women tried reading way too much into me and they were all wrong in the end.
@kaia I talk to an actual autistic woman at work and she can barely hold normal conversations. I am not in that boat even if you think my fedi account is.
@teto the first thing a psychiatrist would check is: - are you in a relationship? - have you been in a relationship? how long did it last? - do you have close friends? - do you have problems fitting in and knowing when your turn to speak is? - can you filter what you say and what you do not say? - tell me about your parents....
and I'm very sure you'd get a ASD diagnosis :camfy:
@teto@kaia you see as an enlightened autist (i learned how to communicate) i would have made her life an actual nightmare at every opportunity. unironically this fucking comic
@kaia - no, women havent been my biggest fans so far - no, never. I focus on my career mostly. - yes, a few. A few of them in my village. - no, I dont have trouble with that. - yes I am basically a different person depending on context and person I talk to. - I love my parents, my mom is the typical slav immigrant (racist and loves alcohol), and my dad is my father figure I look up to
@kaia my dad said changing "personality" based on the person is a skill I shouldnt tell others, cuz he had bad reactions to it when noticed. Men are likable when they are "predictable", he says
@teto@kaia at best they ignored me or kept talking to a minimum, at worst they teased me or used me, one almost ALMOST convinced me to drink a cup of her vomit for money, girls will turn 15 and somehow become actual sadistic devils for no reason.
women will always be my biggest weakness :cry_cirno:
@themilkman@kaia women play with social power a lot and the teen years are their playground where they get the hang of it. Luckily theyre mostly dumb in most other fields
@teto@kaia i will be a 100% honest autism was not the only issue i had, some other stuff too, mostly they are gone now. i am not ashamed to admit i swallowed chalk in a futile attempt to impress a girl.
@themilkman@teto this thread started with me explaining how teto was autistic which he denied and now we are 30 posts into some of the most deranged stuff :Sheew:
@teto@kaia if like my company hired 3 women all at once me and my boys are FINISHED, it would be over, the HR lady would be tipped off in seconds.
some chick would pass by my office, see the miku rape sticker i have stickied to my monitor (15 months strong) and then within the next 15 minutes i would get an e-mail sent to me.
@teto@kaia women with BPD are like elite women i swear.
they are also natural predators to autistic dudes, countless souls have fallen to the rabbit hole that is BPD pussy.
remember one chick that got hired in our company for like 1 month before she got FIRED immedietly because she just started problems with every other guy in the company instantly.
@themilkman@kaia yeah Ive witnessed such women too. But the ones that start rumours behind your back are way worse longterm. Im glad the men to women ratio in my field is 99 to 1. (not counting troons)
@kaia@themilkman you really dont know what the average mens hangout is like. Last week with the family dads after all the women and kids were gone we had some deranged right wing topics too while being dead drunk. I love the countryside