Community management protip/serenityOS subtoot:
This one's for the "nice liberals" who think gender stuff is just "too political".
Tough shit.
When you're in a position of influence in a community, then everything you do shapes the community. If you got this far by ignoring a social justice topic, good for you I guess. But you fucked up. There is no neutral position. Either you welcome marginalized people, or you welcome the people who want to keep them in the margins. You can't do both.