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> if she was 19 he's still a fuckin creep
eh. i really don't have any fucks to give other than if they're legal age. :comfysip:
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@critical @susie maturity is more complicated but society has decided its done by picking an arbitrary age and i don't care to have the argument.
if both parties are considered capable of consent then i don't really care after that :neofox_up_paws:
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@susie @icedquinn kids develop fast, so going in reverse on the years, 17 is a lot more immature than 18. The difference becomes greater, the younger you go.
Leave kids be kids.
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@icedquinn My mom had two kids by 19. I do not want to think that there was any weird stuff happening, since my parents did stay together for almost twenty years after that too (and had a third kid). And age stuff never popped up even during the divorce period.
On the other hand I'm not mature enough for kids even at 30. I wouldn't look at people's age and draw conclusions about their personalities and whether or not it is "ewww" to boink. It's better to always judge each individual as an unique person. Some "adults" clearly aren't grown up enough to have real consensual relationship with and some 18 year olds are indeed mature enough to have a real consensual relationship. (I put 18 there to save my butt from drama).