feel like sex havers would have a lot less psychological issues if they simply cared less about having sex
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:56:02 JST Surfer Vriska
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ruin (ruin@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:53 JST ruin
@vriska@lizards.live @thegreatape@hollow.raccoon.quest primal disgust? at what aspect, because i say im willing to have sex with the person i care about?
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ruin (ruin@mai.waifuism.life)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:54 JST ruin
@vriska@lizards.live @thegreatape@hollow.raccoon.quest i figure sex is an expected part of a relationship, and sex can make the person you care about feel better, so deal with sex is sorta my mind set, and sometimes the experience can be unexpectedly enjoyable - but there is a pervasive cultural thing with sex that affects me - even if i rather just be held or hold someone else - I would not feel i was truly in a relationship with them until we had sex.
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:54 JST Surfer Vriska
@ruin @thegreatape I understand why you feel this way but I will be honest and say reading this makes me feel a deep, deep, primal disgust
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:55 JST Surfer Vriska
@thegreatape Asexual is Not a commonly accepted thing. people say it is, but it is not. There is no place for people who are repulsed by sex in society. It is all advertising, it is most popular culture and has been all our lives. everyone I've ever shown any amount of More Than Strictly Platonic interest in has thought they could "Fix Me". Non Traditional Cishet Culture is centered entirely around sex. I'm not saying it shouldnt be, if apparently most of all people ever feel this way, but
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The Great Ape (Hollow Squad) (thegreatape@hollow.raccoon.quest)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:57 JST The Great Ape (Hollow Squad)
@vriska@lizards.live it's a curse to be so horny all the time, I know I'm guilty of being like that. I wish I didn't care about this stuff. I feel like people would be accepting of you regardless, especially since asexual is a commonly accepted thing now. Not saying that exactly defines you but it's something more people are finally accepting of.
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:58 JST Surfer Vriska
@thegreatape see I agree with this but at the same time the entire world makes me feel like a freak and broken fundamentally over it so i dont have that luxury
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:55:58 JST Surfer Vriska
@thegreatape imagine being weird and fucked up and gay like I am and you try to find some community but 99% of everyone else "Like You" is obsessed with getting off and makes it the focus of their life, its bad enough all the hets do this, its nonstop, its constant
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Surfer Vriska (vriska@lizards.live)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:56:01 JST Surfer Vriska
its so genuinely alienating to talk to people about it or see people talk about it becuase apparently I'm the abnormal one. apparently I'm the weirdo for not having a near-single minded debilitating obsession with fucking. apparently im the one doing it wrong.
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The Great Ape (Hollow Squad) (thegreatape@hollow.raccoon.quest)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 09:56:01 JST The Great Ape (Hollow Squad)
@vriska@lizards.live honestly you're doing it right don't even worry about it.
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?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2024 10:08:01 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??
I'm a sex haver, and there's nothing wrong with me. 🤷♂️
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