@PaulaToThePeople I think you’re treating this as a matter of possibility, and so seeing this as a rejection of the work you/people around you did, while I’m treating this as a matter of probability and the safety and happiness of everyone involved.
It’s great it worked out for you. There are many people whose circumstances are the same and had much worse outcomes.
I’d rather have many diverse, positive, and personal role models for people to have growing up than not.