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   Ryan Clough :scremcat: (ciscojunkie@techhub.social)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:20:20 JST Ryan Clough :scremcat:

   This #PrideMonth is hitting different. I'm doing a lot more thinking, and planning on doing a lot more changing. In previous years I've always felt outside of Pride celebrations. This year I'm celebrating by becoming who I really want to be.

   It's terrifying. I'm the most scared I've been in quite a while. At the same time, I can't keep pretending I'm happy with my body as it currently is.

   I don't want to be masc. I don't want to be fem. I just want to be me, whatever that looks like.

   I could really use some folks to talk to during this #transition, ideally folks who have been through something similar. Despite the month, it's hard not to feel alone in being #agender wanting to move away from both sides of the gender binary.

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     Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag: (ryanc@infosec.exchange)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:20:18 JST Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag:

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     • Anne-alytics

     @CiscoJunkie @annealytics

     Genderfuck around and find out. 🙂

     https://rya.nc/j9

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     Anne-alytics (annealytics@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:20:19 JST Anne-alytics

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     • Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag:

     @CiscoJunkie Also tagging @ryanc who is pursuing formal non-binary recognition with the UK government

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     Ryan Clough :scremcat: (ciscojunkie@techhub.social)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:20:19 JST Ryan Clough :scremcat:

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     • Anne-alytics

     @annealytics Thanks so much for the tags!

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     Anne-alytics (annealytics@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:20:20 JST Anne-alytics

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     • Doc Impossible

     @CiscoJunkie Do you already know @Impossible_PhD? She may be able to connect you further!

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     Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag: (ryanc@infosec.exchange)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:48:20 JST Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag:

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     @CiscoJunkie I mean, there's like, that one paper, and not much else, so...

     (if you have more stuff you've found, please share)

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     Ryan Clough :scremcat: (ciscojunkie@techhub.social)'s status on Wednesday, 05-Jun-2024 07:48:21 JST Ryan Clough :scremcat:

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     • Ryan Castellucci :nonbinary_flag:

     @ryanc Oh my goodness, I'm cackling right now.

     You tossed up the transition options flowchart at 10:05-ish, and I *immediately* recognized it from my research on options.

     So, uh, at least I'm looking in the right places? 😆