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found a study a while ago (I lost it unfortunately) claiming something like women are typically attracted to stable men, while men found attractive women with traits of unstableness hot. really wondering if this is true or not - at least anecdotally it seems a little true
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@dommymommy it is definitely true in my experience
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@Indigo @dommymommy Yeah I think bi and lesbian women have higher tolerance for instability as a general rule, and in cases like T4T dating this can be taken to cartoonish extremes depending on which cliques you run with
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@dommymommy I've actually experienced the exact opposite situation in my dating life, more than once actually, where I was dumped due to being *too* stable for them; but my dating life is kind of an oddity, and I don't think I've ever dated a woman who wasn't bi, so I might be an outlier. :shrug_yui: