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   Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:18:32 JST Sick Sun
   should you actually confide fully in a spouse, knowing that most marriages end in divorce and this information could be used against you at a later point
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     new me new me (lebronjames75@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:19:35 JST new me new me

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     @sun yes and you kill her if she uses said information against you
     
     win win
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     iced depresso (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:20:27 JST iced depresso

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     @sun the romantic would say if you can't then that's not the girl for you
     
     the machiavellian stirnerist would say have a plan to kill her at a moments notice and make it look like an accident :blobcatgendou:
     
     siege mentality hours
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     on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ (lain@lain.com)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:21:20 JST on-lain ✔ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ

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     @sun what if divorces happen because of lack of trust
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     taylor (nik@misskey.bubbletea.dev)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:28:04 JST taylor

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     @sun@shitposter.world at this point in a relationship way I view it is we have so much mutual dirt that if one person wants to air shit out it's mutually assured destruction

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     billiam :4chan: (billiam@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:33:01 JST billiam :4chan:

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     @sun manosphere people used to have some good stats on this. The stats generally are interesting. E.g. the divorce rates have been declining but so have the marriage rates (likely meaning that only people who are more confident in their ability to maintain a marriage are getting married).
     
     various factors like number of sexual partners and intelligence/education can be used to predict divorce likelihood
     
     >Many like to bring up the statistic that 50% of divorces end in divorce as evidence that humans (and in particular women as they initiate them in modern countries) are not meant to practice monogamy, however amongst first marriages only 35% of marriages end in divorce.[25][26][27]
     >The reason why the divorce rate taken as a whole comes out at 50% is because a minority of r-strategists whom continuously divorce and remarry which means that the rate increases as a result.
     https://incels.wiki/w/Marriage#Divorce
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     Yaldabaoth (yaldabaoth@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 03:42:03 JST Yaldabaoth

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     @sun you guys on here always talk about marriage in such a doomer way. If you find someone you know enough to genuinely start thinking about marriage, you won't have thoughts about how your spouse is out to fuck you over.
     
     Source: am in a happy marriage
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     Sick Sun (sun@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 05:33:21 JST Sick Sun

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     @Noraweed yes I was told this later
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     Noraweed (noraweed@shitposter.world)'s status on Saturday, 18-May-2024 05:33:22 JST Noraweed

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     @sun Doesn't the "most marriages end in divorce" figure count serial divorcees for each marriage? Meaning the actual chance of divorce if you both haven't been married before is far lower.