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some opsec tip: if you and the person you are DMing via chats both delete the conversation, it's gone forever. if one party deletes their half manually, it's also gone. like @WhiteAmericanEskimo who asked me to help him with something because he donated money to poast today whom i was going to tell I wasn't for sale but he deleted prior to my ability to do that
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@graf Yep. That was a mistake on my part. Poorly written, poorly thought out. I should have just asked for your help. Funny the mistakes we make sometimes. I admit fault. It felt wrong when I wrote it, but I wrote it anyway. Sometimes I have a uncertain sense of myself when asking for favors from people I don't really know but respect, and I dislike asking for favors but I needed help with a matter of social media and the internet.
So, to recap, for everyone who didn't know the background, I insulted graf by asking him for a favor and mentioning that I hoped he would do it since I donated a decent amount to the site. Terrible form on my part and abominable manners.
Mea Culpa, Mea Culpa, Mea Maxima Culpa.
At least I figured out how offensive I came off so I deleted it hoping that graf would not see it.
My apologies to graf and to Poast as a whole. This site has been a godsend and I truly appreciate the openness, the anime, the acceptance of my NatSoc values, my Boomer-like manners, and my clumsy idiocy sometimes, but that's just me. I'm a mix of brilliance and occasional stupidity. I don't mind being called out for it. It's a regular feature of me that many here have already learnt. Carry on.
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@graf @WhiteAmericanEskimo What's the issue? It sounds like he just made a faux pas than doing anything intentionally malicious
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@Witch_Hunter_Siegfired @graf I stupidly jammed my finger into a sore point having to so with donations. It was a huge mistake. I see that now.
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@WhiteAmericanEskimo no i actually dont want you on my website full stop. because stripe broke our records between the ban and now i can't find you in our donations so tell me the email and I will make sure the cash gets to you as you get off my fucking website
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@WhiteAmericanEskimo tell me your email so i can refund it and get off my site man. you're literally browbeating me for ignoring you demanding favor for donating lmfao
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@graf Let me try once more. I understand that I insulted you, and I truly apologize. I am publicly asking for you to accept my apology and I mean that sincerely. Will you accept my apology?
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@Witch_Hunter_Siegfired @graf I'm on the spectrum and I tend to write in an odd style and sometimes I piss people off when I don't mean to.
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@WhiteAmericanEskimo @Witch_Hunter_Siegfired nigger read what you said to me. you're the most condescending fuck i've ever met
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@graf @Witch_Hunter_Siegfired Ugh. I can come off that way, but it was not how I meant it. People say that I have a manner of writing that seems.... I was offering you respect by being open about my error. It's just how I write. Can anyone help me here? Please?
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@WhiteAmericanEskimo @graf I’m the only other person here so I’ll say my 2 cents, I‘m an autist who’s bad at social cues, though to ME it didn't come off ad passive aggressive.
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@WhiteAmericanEskimo @Witch_Hunter_Siegfired @graf I don't have time to read for context, but this man is comically and hopelessly autistic.
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