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   13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 01:52:56 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

   Help me, I am dying of boredom.

   Who wants to see photos of me looking like a complete dork at (I think?) my first pride event after I came out as non-binary?

   (Actually as genderqueer as was the style of the time, but we don't talk about that.)

   This was 2011, I came out publicly in 2010, and I know that because I recently found copies of an email chain with an incredibly confused but very accommodating person from HR at my work.

   You are allowed to be amused at me thinking I could carry off bleach-blond hair. My ex certainly was.

   [CW eye contact, bad poi]

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 01:58:05 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     • Russet

     @ladytaters They make them in vegan now and I am very determined to save up for another pair.

     https://www.newrock.com/en/metallic-m-272-vc5

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     Russet (ladytaters@wandering.shop)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 01:58:06 JST Russet

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     @HauntedOwlbear I love the boots! :)

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 02:09:24 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     • StenPett

     @stenpett That tee has been places, let me tell you. And Dimmu Borgir fans are always the most hardcore t-shirt appreciators. 🤘

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     StenPett (stenpett@mstdn.games)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 02:09:25 JST StenPett

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     @HauntedOwlbear 🤘 Love your choice of t-shirt! 🤘

     (Long time Norwegian metal head here)

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     13 barn owls in a trenchcoat (hauntedowlbear@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 06:05:47 JST 13 barn owls in a trenchcoat

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     • Lunar 🛸 ♾

     @lunarloony thank you! I still have it. Well I have the tee, and replace the trousers with an identical pair every few years.

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     Lunar 🛸 ♾ (lunarloony@dosgame.club)'s status on Thursday, 16-May-2024 06:05:49 JST Lunar 🛸 ♾

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     @HauntedOwlbear Cool outfit. Love the pants.