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   Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 11:51:06 JST Special Guest Star
   seriously considering manhandling my oldest daughter, throwing her onto the floor in her room, and locking her in there for an hour.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 11:57:17 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     she suffers from ODD. She is a compulsive gainsayer and perpetually verbally abusive to her kin and to me.
     
     Every so often mom will beat her with a household object - frying pan, tennis racket, so forth. but my daughter cannot control herself.
     
     no amount of discussion or argument will fix her. she needs medicine and probably an extensive inpatient stay.
     
     I’m not permitted to discipline her, for reasons, and it really grinds my gears.
     
     tonight she picked a fight with me and physically prevented me from cooking for the other kids.
     
     it’s worse by the day. she needs professional help and I can’t do a thing about it.
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     Kitty Tantrum (kittytantrum@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 11:57:18 JST Kitty Tantrum

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     @s2208 damb whad she do?
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:02:06 JST DMA

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     @s2208 @KittyTantrum bipolar disorder?
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:02:06 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     oppositional defiant disorder. ODD. It’s a moderately uncommon diagnosis.
     
     It would be unethical for me to actually diagnose my own family member, but I am fairly certain that’s the right diagnosis.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:03:09 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     https://www.verywellhealth.com/oppositional-defiant-disorder-7562796
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:08:21 JST DMA

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     @s2208 @KittyTantrum I had one like that full bipolar and manic depression. Yes took him in. yes psychotic event. yes he had 15 day stay. Medication with homeschooling. The CBD gummies according to him works better. he is 33.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:08:21 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     I’m glad he found what works for him.
     
     the best meds I ever found for me were cigarettes and adderal, neither of which I am permitted anymore.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:10:29 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     depends on what it’s treating
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:10:30 JST DMA

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     @s2208 @KittyTantrum adderall is trash.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:13:56 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     I’m sorry they didn’t work for you.
     
     I’m not a meds doctor. I can only tell you what’s worked for me and for my clients - and what’s not worked. (the same medicine will work for one and not the other.)
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     DMA (dma@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:13:57 JST DMA

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     @s2208 @KittyTantrum add and adhd. increase anger. Ritalin is trash too. I got adhd. legal diagnosed. I use caffeine to keep myself sane.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:16:18 JST Special Guest Star

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     nobody even knows how SSRIs work
     
     it’s a very strange mix of art and science
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     Spingebill (spingebill@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:16:19 JST Spingebill

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     @DMA @s2208 @KittyTantrum back when i macrodosed caffiene i had constant violent, intrusive thoughts, which don't happen on Adderall. maybe the suppression of violent urges is why the money-changers love prescribing it so much
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:25:45 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     When she was 9, her father went out for a pack of cigarettes and never returned.
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     pyrate (pyrate@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:25:46 JST pyrate

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     This sounds incredibly rough. I wonder when it began to set in and what were the triggers, if any.
     
     I can see how locking her in a room would have destructive ends, but you also need peace for the rest of your family's sake.
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     Special Guest Star (s2208@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:27:28 JST Special Guest Star

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     i have been fully accepted by the other three. they are thirsty for a dad, and we all get along very well.
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     pyrate (pyrate@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 12:27:29 JST pyrate

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     • Kitty Tantrum
     Tragic. Step dad role is tough.