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   Chicken :cqlgusu: (lookitmychicken@blorbo.social)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 10:13:54 JST Chicken :cqlgusu:

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   @lirazel
   I haven't perceived you that way, but I understand that it's a legit concern.

   I'm glad you're taking care of yourself.

   If it helps any, I think it's impossible to control how others perceive you online, & impossible to communicate in a way that everyone will understand exactly what you mean.

   We're all imperfect humans doing our best to connect with each other. Sometimes it doesn't go the way we intend & that's okay. I think it's still worth trying. ❤️❤️

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     lirazel (lirazel@federatedfandom.net)'s status on Saturday, 13-Apr-2024 10:13:55 JST lirazel

     I think I need to step away from this site. I keep failing to communicate, I keep coming across as judgmental in ways that I don't intend, and it's happened often enough that it's very clearly a problem with me. I don't know how to fix that except to not talk to people online.

     I may pop in now and then for Nirvana in Fire watching, but for now, I'm stepping away. I am sorry.