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   Allen Versfeld (uastronomer@mastodon.monoceros.co.za)'s status on Saturday, 16-Mar-2024 01:11:33 JST Allen Versfeld

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   • Ricki Crush Bandicute Tarr

   @RickiTarr Sure, my goals have changed.
   For starters, I had no goals, aside from "Get a better job that pays more money I guess maybe one day".

   But I'm a different person now. I'm older, I've experienced more, my circumstances have changed. I'd be worried about anybody whose goals have NOT changed, frankly, That kind of long-term fixation on something that you wanted 20 years ago sounds unhealthy to me.

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     Ricki Crush Bandicute Tarr (rickitarr@beige.party)'s status on Saturday, 16-Mar-2024 01:11:34 JST Ricki Crush Bandicute Tarr

     When I was younger I had goals, I wanted to have this and renovate that, and achieve something or the other, and nothing wrong with any of that, but as I've aged my goals have simplified. Maybe it's just the realization of how quickly time moves or watching loved ones pass suddenly, but now I want a good place to sit, a drink and conversation, a nice meal, to see/hear something beautiful, to feel loved.

     What about y'all, have your goals changed as you've aged, what do you want now vs then?

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