@james @terraboops I also feel like there's a big expectations communications issue in general

I make very clear to people that I have an anchor partner who I have a very long lasting and strong relationship with, and you've gotta understand that I just don't have the emotional capacity to be *that* close to multiple people at once. Doesn't mean we can't become very close, but you have to understand those dynamics; if you're looking for something that tight with me, you're going to be disappointed