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eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:34:28 JST eris Me watching narcissists talk about their lives on tiktok while I fall in love with them knowing that a relationship with them would be extremely abusive and cause me deep psychological trauma (I have bpd) - georgia likes this.
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??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:44:21 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: @eris do BPDs really -
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eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:44:21 JST eris @nyx BPD is kind of fulfilled by a narcissist because they wanna be the favorite person and we want the favorite person, we also wanna feel needed and find it fairly impossible to tell when a narcissist is using us.
So these relationships come off ✨ magical ✨ like this is The One and we're just twin flames and the universe brought us together
Until the narcissist has had their fill when we start to assert healthy boundaries and ghost us for another victim to use while we're blind sided by the reality that the relationship wasnt real to begin with
Its so bad to the extent that in BPD therapy you're basically taught that a magical relationship is something you need to see as a red flag and run away from, but it makes other relationships seem dull and unfulfilling which is totally awesome -
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LucifarGundam (lucifargundam@qoto.org)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:44:52 JST LucifarGundam Just pretend you and I are besties being beasties. Find a safe place in the Danger Zone.
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??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:46:56 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: @eris this shit is why im a revcel. it's just not worth it eris likes this. -
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??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 29-Feb-2024 10:47:42 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: @eris not because im BPD just because everyone is all fucked up in all these different ways that make it practically impossible for relationships to not all be toxic as fuck eris likes this.