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   eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 18:53:00 JST eris
   Apparently Ra'il has a patreon of 80 paid members and also just did a gofundme for $11,000
   
   Why is it so much easier for non-transfemmes to raise funds when in need is an interesting question. Between them, Are0h, Marcia, etc there is upwards of $30k+ being given in crowdfunding to people who shit on and isolate transfemmes on fedi as their whole internet presence while my trans sisters can't keep food on the table
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     ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 18:57:32 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:

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     @eris as usual it's always the abusive sociopaths who get to reap all the rewards from stupid people who fall for their bullshit
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 18:58:55 JST eris

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     • ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:
     @nyx they're "struggling from harassment" (having others pay their rent and going on Europe trips)
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 19:00:06 JST eris

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     • Skittle-chan
     @Coherence7521 idk about that, they have the right to grift and ask for money I just think they should be reflective of how different it is for others when in need
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     Skittle-chan (coherence7521@social.uden.ai)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 19:00:07 JST Skittle-chan

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     I think the right thing to do is to encourage people to mass report their Patreons for harassment and violation of their TOS. Cutting their funding is how we win

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     ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 19:07:22 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:

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     @eris TMEs just have no idea that transfems live in an entirely different world from them. everyone I know, including myself, are all barely making it, pretty much constantly living in proximity to death, and this tends to be the case for years and years. the level of just constant fucking destitution this entire demographic deals with is unreal and it's the icing on the cake that these scumbags have the nerve to be constantly slandering us even if we try to keep to our own spaces and not interact with them at all.
     
     it's almost like we're a uniquely oppressed class of people that is constantly undergoing a soft genocide and that they're all fucking complicit in it.
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     ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 26-Feb-2024 19:20:31 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:

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     • ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:
     @eris like genuinely if you haven't dealt with having to live in an overcrowded tranny polycule sharehouse with like a dozen other impoverished transfems because you can barely make rent or afford to feed yourself each month, if you haven't had to deal with homelessness before, if you haven't had your entire support network get destroyed while living in these sorts of conditions by someone blowing a conflict out of proportion into abuse accusations for the express purpose of disposing of you -- then I really could not give less of a fuck what you think about transfems. the vast majority of TMEs, compared to most of the transfems I know who have kept me alive through years of poverty and precarity and severe mental illness, may as well be bourgeois labor aristocrats for how completely fucking different their reality is from mine, and if on top of this they are also accusing us of being the ones with the power then they deserve nothing less than the wall
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     ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving: (nyx@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 27-Feb-2024 11:55:03 JST ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:

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     • Varrock Worm
     @arrav @eris lmao fuck off
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     Varrock Worm (arrav@brain.worm.pink)'s status on Tuesday, 27-Feb-2024 11:55:10 JST Varrock Worm

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     • ??? 妛彁 :xf_nyxsigil: :xf_nyxdisapproving:
     @nyx @eris TME is just radfem gobshite. its not about "who has it worse" because ive seen the shit transfems gave some guys too. neither of it justifies the transmisogyny nor transandrophobia that is happening.
     
     they come for transfems first because thats a very popular target to shit on. they eradicate transfems and move on to other trans people, then they eradicate the entire trans population and start eradicating gnc cis people. its a domino type shit and i wish we could all focus on stopping this altogether instead of "well the evil TMEs are oppressing us" "oh the evil transfems are oppressing us"
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Tuesday, 27-Feb-2024 12:07:20 JST eris

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     • Varrock Worm
     @arrav how is saying TME "rebranded radfem bullshit". TME does not just mean trans masc just because trans mascs so desperately want to claim transmisogny
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     Varrock Worm (arrav@brain.worm.pink)'s status on Tuesday, 27-Feb-2024 12:07:21 JST Varrock Worm

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     @eris it's not about being transmasc or "TME" (which is literally rebranded radfem bullshit) it's the fact who they are buddied with. as long as they serve the techbros' agenda (which is often just transmisogyny with extra steps) they are useful. they step out and they get as trashed as everyone else