@OctaviaConAmore @helplessduck @Gaolaitch This musician agrees. You can’t always meet people where they’re at, but you do have to reach toward them. Much the same with teaching as well.
I’m also a big defender of making music for one’s own self, and not feeling like it doesn’t matter or doesn’t count because it’s a private pursuit, a secret garden. Meeting people where they’re at includes one’s self.