@tillybridges @itsjustjenn Interesting thing to discuss! In my case, I'm a master of transference, so I'd go around being a huge advocate for people around me changing their bodies in any way they wanted while convincing myself that surely *I* don't need that.
Then I got a tattoo. It's a tattoo of a kitsune fox sitting in tea ceremony, desperately trying to keep its tail tucked in its kimono.
And I cared for the tattoo better than the rest of me and cried explaining it to others.
(crack)