For instance, if someone has spent years spreading hate, then a simple "I was wrong about that" doesn't go very far. If someone is content to just stop there, then it's perfectly justifiable to push them to actually make amends.
@thomasfuchs I was a registered Libertarian at 19 (I wanted queer and abortion rights, but also gun rights, which my dad had convinced me should be sacred.) Fixed that pretty quickly, but still.
I've also had to unlearn a lot of casual bigoted language, especially ableist language, and had to learn to shut up when other marginalized people needed to take the lead.
My heart is usually in the right place, but I have gaps in knowledge and understanding. I'm always ready to fill those in.
@thomasfuchs Wise words. In fact, it's literally impossible to learn unless you're willing to admit there's something you either were wrong about or don't know.
Humility is like a muscle in that it needs to be exercised. It may feel humiliating to admit your mistakes, but once you make a practice of it you realize it's free, it's painless, it helps you grow, and it INCREASES your credibility.