It's All Too Much not because I am inadequate, but because standards for my class's behavior have risen faster than we've built the infrastructure and prosthetics we'd need to meet them, and because of an unequal distribution of the benefits of the information revolution.
https://www.harihareswara.net/posts/2019/its-not-just-you/
a ton of fiddly expensive-if-you-make-a-mistake labor has emerged or shifted onto our shoulders, without commensurate logistical, psychological, or financial support for that shift.