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   Molly 🏳️‍⚧️ (dangeousenby@computerfairi.es)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jan-2024 13:38:21 JST Molly 🏳️‍⚧️

   Anyone have any good book/resource recommendations for ethical polyamory? My wife and I are thinking about opening up.

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     Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jan-2024 13:38:16 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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     • Lentil :fmb:

     @lennby @dangeousenby These are good resources. Also, I offer this anti-recommendation. Avoid More Than Two. I personally know some of the people the author left in his wake.
     https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com/

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     Lentil :fmb: (lennby@laconic.social)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jan-2024 13:38:20 JST Lentil :fmb:

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     @dangeousenby
     a bit slow, but i liked Polysecure by Jessica Fern, but it's more about attachment. i'll probably read her other book, Polywise

     i'm currently reading Polyamory by Martha Kauppi, which is for therapists but v accessible. a lot of kink stuff and consent focus. ok so far.

     Ethical Slut is in my queue, and is a classic

     my couples therapist wrote The Many Faces of Polyamory, so that's also in my queue

     love this thread! :polyam_flag: :polyamory_icon:

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     Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Tuesday, 23-Jan-2024 13:39:49 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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     @lennby @dangeousenby Yeesh...clicked the link to see the whole thread from the original page. Lotta people recommending the work of a very problematic man.

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     Kit Rhett Aultman (roadriverrail@signs.codes)'s status on Wednesday, 24-Jan-2024 07:57:55 JST Kit Rhett Aultman

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     • Lentil :fmb:

     @memnus @dangeousenby @lennby That's useful to know! If and when that happens, I will happily recommend it.

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     Lilian, Nest-Builder (memnus@swingset.social)'s status on Wednesday, 24-Jan-2024 07:57:56 JST Lilian, Nest-Builder

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     • Lentil :fmb:

     @dangeousenby @roadriverrail @lennby The second edition of More Than Two should be released later this year, with enough changes to remove that particular person from the author credit entirely. Could still be worth holding out for that one (I know I'll want to replace my existing copy).

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     Molly 🏳️‍⚧️ (dangeousenby@computerfairi.es)'s status on Wednesday, 24-Jan-2024 07:57:58 JST Molly 🏳️‍⚧️

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     • Lentil :fmb:

     @roadriverrail @lennby noted! Thanks for the heads up