You can just listen to Trans people who tell you stuff and believe them. You don't have to assume our group consensuses are tricks or mental illness or less informed than you. That's probably not true, right? Because it's my entire life and just something you heard and disagreed with? Right? So you don't have to argue with us that "if you were in the situation" you would hypothetically feel different. That's actually not a real thing or important to any Trans people at all. ❤️
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Ryan💋 (ryanhoulihan@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 09:27:00 JST Ryan💋
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Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 09:29:39 JST Green Roc Thoughts
@ryanhoulihan So much THIS!
I can only know myself. What I know of everyone else is what I see on the outside.
You, and only you, are the only one who knows how you feel on the inside. I can believe what you say with what you feel. Only what you say about how I feel will be up for debate with me.
I think you are a wonderful human being.
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Ryan💋 (ryanhoulihan@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 09:31:22 JST Ryan💋
When you say “pronouns aren’t that big of a deal” you’re implicitly saying “you’re either mentally ill, stupid, asking for an indulgence, or trying to trick me” all of which are the kind of stereotypes that can get us killed and, if someone does kill us, are legally “valid” reasons for doing so. People have baselessly accused us of those things and walked for our murders. Maybe you can just shut the fuck up about things you don’t actually know about and we can all just be cool ❤️❤️
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Green Roc Thoughts (greenroc@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 09:32:47 JST Green Roc Thoughts
@ryanhoulihan :BlobhajHeart:
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Ryan💋 (ryanhoulihan@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 09:38:02 JST Ryan💋
If you think having accommodations available – even just MANNERS – is a threat to who you are or your freedom to do whatever you want to do… I mean, if you “disagree” with gay marriage, don’t get gay married. Don’t attend. Leave everyone else alone!
I’m not going to arrest you for not tipping or misgendering me or wearing shoes in my bedroom. I’ll just think you’re an asshole. Arguing the point with me is not gonna help your case ❤️❤️❤️
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Pyperkub (pyperkub@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 10:14:57 JST Pyperkub
@ryanhoulihan to me, it's just like the so-called war on christmas - the underlying desire is to be rude (or worse) just to not really care about people. I'll make mistakes (old man yells at cloud - get off my lawn! habits die hard after decades of phrasing normality, but they aren't intentional like so many are.
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TiredEnby (thetiredenby@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 11:23:39 JST TiredEnby
@ryanhoulihan I have so many people who try to do this to me and it's really bloody annoying
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VanIslander (vanislander@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jan-2024 16:20:36 JST VanIslander
@ryanhoulihan
Sorry for your anger.
You're beautiful....so much so you should feel wonderful...if not maybe it's time to move far away?
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