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   lydia :xf_666: 🦂 (lydiaposting@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 28-Dec-2023 17:02:58 JST lydia :xf_666: 🦂
   Genuinely, I've never been in a single trans space, online or otherwise, that has been pushy about polyamory in any way that is forceful enough to warrant how weird some are about us. I've only encountered spaces where polyam people are open about who they are, that's it. If you have a problem with that, we can talk about your weird bigotry if you'd like.
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Thursday, 28-Dec-2023 17:02:56 JST eris

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     @lydiaposting I think I wish I COULD be that way because it would solve a lot of issues with my BPD and attachment styles
     
     But the reality is I was groomed into polyamory in an abusive way multiple times in my life and so it's just not possible for me. Live and love how you want tho
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     lydia :xf_666: 🦂 (lydiaposting@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Friday, 29-Dec-2023 05:43:09 JST lydia :xf_666: 🦂

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     @eris I'm sorry that happened to you, but surely you understand how mono people are treated as default in the vast majority of cases in society so there might be a reason why some, not all, polyam people would feel the desire to talk about their relationships in a revolutionary way. I don't want to do that in quite this way, but there's nothing about any perceived superiority and, if that's how you're reading the situation, I'd invite you to consider what I said earlier in this reply.
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Friday, 29-Dec-2023 05:43:09 JST eris

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     @lydiaposting the perceived superiority thing wasn't my take to be fair, I haven't seen it portrayed that way