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   Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Friday, 22-Dec-2023 07:17:13 JST Bæ Grylls

   I’ve relearned a vital life lesson this year. It’s one of those things that presents itself multiple times throughout my life but there’s always a new layer to unearth every time.

   It does not matter what anyone’s perception of my reality — my struggles, what happened to me, what I’ve done, my triumphs et al — is to them. They’re merely spectators.

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     Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Friday, 22-Dec-2023 07:22:25 JST Bæ Grylls

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     I have to live with me. Every second of every day.

     The work never stops but I like who I am and who I’m becoming. You’re just… talking about what I’ve yet to figure out or become better at.

     So with all due respect, it’s not that I find your critique unhelpful. It’s that I can’t afford to care more about your musings when I’ve got to do what I’ve got to do.

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     Bæ Grylls (theauracle@queer.party)'s status on Friday, 22-Dec-2023 07:24:46 JST Bæ Grylls

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     You don’t have to help.

     Just don’t be a hinderance.