On Sunday, I received the news that my younger brother James Gurney passed away unexpectedly at the age of 27. James was immensely fun. The consummate performer - he loved people and he loved life. He also struggled with addiction and I am immensely proud of the fact that he had been in recovery and had made peace with himself and those around him. I wish I could have told him that before. Seems appropriate that today is All Souls when we remember those who have departed. Rest in Peace, James.
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Friday, 03-Nov-2023 11:49:31 JST Sean Bala
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:29:26 JST Sean Bala
Thanks for your comment, Jeff. I appreciate it. The funeral was on Monday and we were really touched by who came out.
I'm really grateful that he was sober when he passed and had started to find himself again. He was really proud of his recovery.
Unfortunately, he was a Type-1 diabetic and we think that he had a severe low blood sugar that caused a seizure (still waiting for complete confirmation).
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Jeff Smith スミス (sumisu3@mastodon.beer)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:29:28 JST Jeff Smith スミス
@seanbala Sean, my condolences. I also lost my younger brother too soon, and he also struggled with addiction. For us it was expected, but at the same time unexpected because you always hope for them to turn the corner, then you accept that somehow they’ve found peace.
Take care
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:29:57 JST Sean Bala
Thank you, Liz 🤗
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Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾 (liztai@hachyderm.io)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:29:58 JST Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾
@seanbala I am so very sorry for your loss 😟 I know my words are not enough but I pray that you and your family will be able to go through this period with love and comfort.
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:30:55 JST Sean Bala
Thank you, Anita. I appreciate your thoughts and for remembering us at this time.
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Anita Lewis (ajlewis2@social.vivaldi.net)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:30:56 JST Anita Lewis
I'm sorry, Sean. I'll bookmark your post and pictures to keep you in mind. Rest in peace, Dear James.
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:33:04 JST Sean Bala
Thanks for letting me know, Molly. I saw the bulletin online. My great-grandmother was the other Gurney on the list. She died this year at 105 (one month from 106).
My grandmother gave up her plot in the family space and so my brother will be buried next to my grandfather and great-grandmother.
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Molly Cantrell-Kraig (mckra1g@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:33:05 JST Molly Cantrell-Kraig
@seanbala I’m so sorry, Sean. His name was included last night in memoriam. 🖤
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Sean Bala (seanbala@mas.to)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:33:35 JST Sean Bala
Thank you, Ganga - it means a lot for you to reach out. Hope all is well with you.
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Ganga (lifetimecooking@mastodon.au)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Nov-2023 23:33:36 JST Ganga
@seanbala so sorry to hear your news Sean. Condolences to you and your family.
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