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   Kat 🕸️ (kittywifclaws@hachyderm.io)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 03:55:33 JST Kat 🕸️

   I’ve never gotten over the fact that I need breaks from people, and sometimes I go months without calling my best friend

   I wish that I could say when you’re not in front of me we are just paused without it sounding negative. That it’s not personal that we haven’t spoken, and the social rule of pinging each other is odd to me so I am not very good at it. I just get better at making reminders to text you, that the reminders are an act of love, and when I forget it hurts me too

   #AuDHD #ADHD

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     Kat 🕸️ (kittywifclaws@hachyderm.io)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 03:55:30 JST Kat 🕸️

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     • Victor Wynne :tooters:

     @victor I honestly wish for everyone’s sake I was better at it. But we can only attempt to improve who we are. Sad and glad I’m not alone in this feeing though. 🫂

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     Victor Wynne :tooters: (victor@tooters.org)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 03:55:31 JST Victor Wynne :tooters:

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     @kittywifclaws I am really bad about making it a habit to stay in contact with people I consider friends too. I also need breaks from people, but even aside from that I am still bad about remembering to reach out to people. 🫂

     HistoPol (#HP) 🥥 🌴 repeated this.
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     HistoPol (#HP) 🥥 🌴 (histopol@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 04:00:13 JST HistoPol (#HP) 🥥 🌴

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     • Victor Wynne :tooters:

     @kittywifclaws

     I agree. And we can lead by example.

     There is a lot to be said for #ImmanuelKant's #CategoricalImperative in this respect, I think:

     "Act only according to that maxim whereby you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law."

     https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Categorical_imperative

     @victor

     https://hachyderm.io/@kittywifclaws/111331027099794253

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     HistoPol (#HP) 🥥 🌴 (histopol@mastodon.social)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 04:03:33 JST HistoPol (#HP) 🥥 🌴

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     @kittywifclaws

     😥