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   novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️ (anarchopunk_girl@kolektiva.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 22:39:48 JST novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

   My ability to forget names turns into a superpower with trans friends bc their deadname gets instantly obliterated from my brain by like 365 other things within three seconds every time I accidentally learn it

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     novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️ (anarchopunk_girl@kolektiva.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 22:40:09 JST novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

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     I knew one of my friends for two years before she came out. I cannot remember her deadname now.

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     novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️ (anarchopunk_girl@kolektiva.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 22:41:31 JST novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

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     It takes me a second go to remember my brother's deadname that I knew him by his entire childhood by

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     PatternChaser (patternchaser@mas.to)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 22:46:20 JST PatternChaser

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     @anarchopunk_girl That's good, right?

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     novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️ (anarchopunk_girl@kolektiva.social)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 22:46:20 JST novatorine 🏴🏳️‍⚧️

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     @PatternChaser yes! Lol

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     The Galactic Shitpost Outpost (cosmictrigger@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 16-Oct-2023 01:14:24 JST The Galactic Shitpost Outpost

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     @anarchopunk_girl I had a friend/lover named Babette. She isn't trans. She just decided to change her name. At first, I had to catch myself because I would instinctually call her by her former name.

     Now I can't even remember what it is.

     I went from having sex with _______ to having sex with Babette and nothing seemed the least bit weird about it at the time.