pretty much the only good thing about drama like the past few days is that it makes it clear who will and won't show up for me when the transmisogynists eventually come for me, too, and has allowed me to cull my follows accordingly.
like, this shit isn't about me in particular, and it sure isn't transactional. I don't stand up for my sisters and siblings because I expect anything in return.
but if all it takes for someone to turn on one or more of my sisters and sibs is one or a few liberal transphobes throwing a temper tantrum, then that person sure as hell isn't safe company for anyone in our community, myself included.