there's people out there on Fedi openly fashjacketing us, openly saying we need to "have the maleness beat out of us."
and some of y'all are still choosing to play into the Fedi HOA's hands by demanding that we decenter transmisogyny in this discourse.
even when we're down and people are kicking us, it's still demanded of us that we put our needs aside and defer to cishets and TMEs.