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    Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:10:25 JST Paul Cantrell Paul Cantrell

    I’m increasingly of the mind that human beings typically just •hate• tradeoffs. I don’t just mean they hate making decisions involving tradeoffs. I mean they hate admitting to themselves that tradeoffs •exist•.

    They want there to be a right answer, instead of a fuzzy, uncertain, unsatisfying best guess.

    People organize whole political philosophies and worldviews around this need, and will harm themselves and others to hold on to that sense of there being a “right answer.”

    In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:10:25 JST from hachyderm.io permalink
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      Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:16:55 JST Paul Cantrell Paul Cantrell
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      Among many results of this psychological phenomenon is my least favorite form of internet argument:

      [There is a tradeoff between A and B]

      “A!!!”

      “How can you say that when B!!”

      “But A!! Why do you ignore A?!?”

      “That proves you don’t care about B! You are a horrible person!”

      “You A denialists are all the same!”

      [There is still a tradeoff between A and B]

      In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:16:55 JST permalink
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      Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:20:40 JST Paul Cantrell Paul Cantrell
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      (OK, actually fascist trolling is my least favorite form of internet argument. But the one upthread is pretty bad.)

      In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:20:40 JST permalink
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      Paul Cantrell (inthehands@hachyderm.io)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:26 JST Paul Cantrell Paul Cantrell
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      • Dan
      • dingodog

      @dko @dingodog19
      What you describe is very much the way my Engineer Brain works, and it took me a very long time to figure out that this is yet another thing about me that’s unusual and weird.

      In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:26 JST permalink
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      dingodog (dingodog19@sfba.social)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:28 JST dingodog dingodog
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      @inthehands I think this might stem from the fact that it takes less energy to think about something that is neatly contained in a well-defined box.

      Considering ramifications, interactions, fuzzy gray areas takes work. Everyone is sometimes too tired to do that work, and some are always too tired (or too unwilling) to do that work.

      In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:28 JST permalink
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      Dan (dko@infosec.exchange)'s status on Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:28 JST Dan Dan
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      @dingodog19 @inthehands I think it's also appealing because it's a one-and-done "solution" instead of:

      1. Appraising the situation as accurately as possible.
      2. Understanding challenges and goals.
      3. Choosing a course of action that strikes a balance of cost and benefit appropriate to those challenges and goals.
      4. Verifying how effective the action has been by restarting the process.

      Unless you're not only willing, but also open to having new facts alter your thinking, doing this is difficult if not possible. It requires the humility to recognize past-you made the best decision you could given the information you had, what you're trying doesn't work, and if you still want to resolve the issue at hand you have to change tack.

      Increasingly, too many people have the same problem. Their minds are concrete: Thoroughly mixed up and permanently set.

      In conversation Sunday, 10-Sep-2023 07:46:28 JST permalink

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