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   eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:13:14 JST eris
   they really do use the same tactics for every person they do this too huh like where was this accusation before in any of their callouts on Nina and why aren't there receipts
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:15:08 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris what a lying cunt.
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:19:31 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris what i dont understand is how tf do ppl take them seriously when they provide zero (0) proof or evidence?
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:20:57 JST eris

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     @Mondobizarrro they've settled into this excuse that even asking for receipts is "sealioning" "demanding emotional labor from POC" and "not just immediately siding against racism"
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:22:50 JST eris

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     @Mondobizarrro but note it's often white people like WelshPixie who use this excuse
     
     I think it's perfectly valid for POC to not have to post receipts and to say they just don't like someone, but white folks cannot appropriate the stresses of dealing with racism the way white folks on fedi often do
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:23:07 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris that still doesnt really answer my question of how tf do these ppl take them seriously when they do shit like that with no proof? Is it fear? Cult of personality? I dont get it
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:25:02 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris i think receipts are preferred. Its a slippery slope but like i want proof of shit because it gives me plausible denyability to act on them. No proof gives me plausible (enough) denyability to not act on them though atleast thats how i see it, dunno how right that is
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:26:38 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris unfortunately ive been lead on too many times so while i say this i feel that its what i want to do moreso than what i actually do. Im impulsive, and i wanna curate my space in a way thats both drama free and chill as possible. I usually block ppl like that along with nazis i also block because they are two sides of toxic ppl and beliefs.
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:27:42 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris my eventual goal is to run a fedi instance too i just havent yet...
     
     Nothing wrong with xnfm far from it, i just always wanted to curate my own space.
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:32:32 JST eris

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     @Mondobizarrro do it!
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:37:41 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @eris i need to figure shit out..idk anything about code or much of anything..what service do i run? What tools do i run? Who would i wanna add?. I feel like id import a block list from xnfm to start while adding a few of my own. Personally id like to keep the blocklist private and personally i dont like adding instances to it outside of like pedo shit, serial harassers and or nazi shit. May make a policy that "complaints to block an instance without proof will be ignored" or something idk. Ik either way ppl with both support and give me criticism for my job as an admin if i decide to make the mondozone/terra's hanging garden or something idk
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     cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:37:48 JST cipote :bishrexual:

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     @Mondobizarrro @eris lol LJ pretending to listen or care about indigenous people is funny when she’s always instablocked me

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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:37:58 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @teratology @eris are you indigenous) if so i didnt know that
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:38:56 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @teratology @eris you see they gotta do this faux activism to give themselves plausible denyability that they arent pieces of garbage (despite them being massive pieces of garbage)
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     condret :verified: :ancom: (condret@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 03:54:48 JST condret :verified: :ancom:

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     @eris proof or it didn't happen, it's as shrimple as that
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     condret :verified: :ancom: (condret@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 04:09:06 JST condret :verified: :ancom:

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     @eris lowkey racism that they think indigenous people are incapable of lying, though it's questionable that the mentioned victims actually exist imo. this could be entirely made up. don't let them get their way with groundless accusations
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     Paradox (paradox@raru.re)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 04:59:18 JST Paradox

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     @Mondobizarrro @eris
     They get off on virtue points by taking minorities at their word when Bad Stuff™ happens.

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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 04:59:42 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @Paradox @eris they pretend to anyways they dont actually
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     :blobcathug: (jain@blob.cat)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 05:05:58 JST :blobcathug:

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     @Mondobizarrro @eris :blobcatshrug2: maybe mastodon cant change the visibilty...
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     Bushranger Jesus (oldm8@blob.cat)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 09:44:38 JST Bushranger Jesus

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     @Mondobizarrro
     It is fear... fear of ostracism, fear of loneliness.
     The masses fear their own company so much so, that they will throw themselves into any relationship/group/community, even if it's toxic af, just to "fit in". Ostracism doesn't affect psychopaths at all, thus they tend to become "leaders"; though for us, it's like being shot.
     But whoever isn't out everyday, conquering some fear, has not yet learnt the secret of life. Fear defeats more people than any one thing.
     Until the individual learns to pay regular visits to themselves, to recognise the value of their own unique and transient existence, loneliness will no longer be a problem, and so they won't just go looking out for any company, but genuine company.
     
     @eris @Arcana
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     MondoBizarrro (mondobizarrro@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 09:44:46 JST MondoBizarrro

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     @OldM8 @Arcana @eris i feel this actually, can relate tbh
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     Bushranger Jesus (oldm8@blob.cat)'s status on Saturday, 02-Sep-2023 10:48:30 JST Bushranger Jesus

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     @Mondobizarrro I aint no preacher nor sinner, but i know my presence isn't exactly welcomed.
     I hope that what say helps.
     individuals can only be ostracised so often until they go through what's called "resignation", no longer wanting to socialise at all, becoming completely distrustful and at times hostile.
     heck, I'm even distrustful of other egoists... i cant help it, i try tho.
     All one can do is bring it back to their "circle of control", instead of worrying about things that is beyond us. Being in the nursery in my backyard and playing guitar is all that brings me peace these days, nothing else.
     
     anyway, i wish u all the best
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